Bouquet to God
I'm reading a Christian fiction book and one of the young female characters is duped and deceived by a handsome and charismatic male who does not have her best interests at heart. The girl, desiring attention and praise, is easily drawn in by the young man's many compliments and worldly views. He essentially convinces her that sin is good, because it feels right, and is so less restrictive than a life of purity.
As a woman, I too have become wary and weary of those who are too lavish with compliments. Those that gush and spew kudos and kisses are often the very ones who are quick to find fault and speak it behind your back. Then the compliments may become "backhanded compliments," where you are not sure if you should blush from embarrassment or anger.
A woman once told me that when she received compliments, she pictured a floral bouquet and lifted it in her mind up to God, as He's the only one truly worthy of praise. But also, we should check our motives for giving compliments. Are we sincerely attempting to lift someone up, encourage and edify them or are we trying to make ourselves look hospitable, kind and gracious in the other person's eyes? God knows the motives of our hearts, you may fool the recipient, but you won't fool God.
As a woman, I too have become wary and weary of those who are too lavish with compliments. Those that gush and spew kudos and kisses are often the very ones who are quick to find fault and speak it behind your back. Then the compliments may become "backhanded compliments," where you are not sure if you should blush from embarrassment or anger.
A woman once told me that when she received compliments, she pictured a floral bouquet and lifted it in her mind up to God, as He's the only one truly worthy of praise. But also, we should check our motives for giving compliments. Are we sincerely attempting to lift someone up, encourage and edify them or are we trying to make ourselves look hospitable, kind and gracious in the other person's eyes? God knows the motives of our hearts, you may fool the recipient, but you won't fool God.
A bouquet back to the Lord for any compliments I might receive, as He's my creator, redeemer, and supplier for all of my abilities, skills and opportunities. Thank you Lord!
The recent USA gold medal winner, Gabby Douglas, said the following about giving praise to God regarding her success, "It is everything I thought it would be; being the Olympic champion, it definitely is an amazing feeling. And I give all the glory to God. It's kind of a win-win situation. The glory goes up to him and the blessings fall down on me."
Proverbs 26:28 A lying tongue hates those it hurts and a flattering mouth works ruin.
Wow Kate! This is how I feel about compliments too. Plus, I always think someone wants something; however, you are correct in that God knows the motives and the hearts of everyone. I'm so grateful for that!! As usual, learning from your blogs. Barb
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